EIGHT STEPS TO FEELING HAPPIER RIGHT NOW
Declutter:
Give stuff away, donate possessions to charity or pass them on to
someone who could use them. This can relieve stress and create a sense
of lightness and unburdening. A less cluttered bedroom can also bring
the added bonus of better sleep.
Hang washing up outdoors: Getting
some fresh air and creating an orderly line of washing will give you a
relaxing break and a reason to get outside in the garden.
Invite a lonely person to tea:
Or offer to help your neighbour with their garden, leaking pipe,
shopping, etc. Feeling needed and having a sense of belonging to a
community are important factors for a sense of wellbeing.
Go for a walk: Time
spent in green surroundings has shown time and time again to be calming
and restorative. Even a green view is beneficial, so try and buy some
indoor plants too: geraniums for a window sill, ivy for a dark corner,
and herbs for the kitchen.
Stand up straight, and smile: The
way we hold ourselves and our facial expression affects the way we
feel. Adopt a confident posture and you will feel more confident; look
calmly on the world and it will seem a friendlier place.
Visit an empty beach or hilltop: Being a tiny part of an immense landscape can reassuringly put worries into perspective.
Get moving: Physical
activity gets us out of our heads and generates endorphins, the hormone
which makes us feel good; dig the garden, cycle, walk, dance, make
pastry, or even mow the lawn.
Appreciate the little things: From
a spider spinning a web, to a bird singing: these are just a few of the
endless everyday details which we often overlook or take for granted,
yet which can delight us if we let them.
TERESA'S EIGHT STEPS TO INVESTING IN HAPPINESS
List five things for which you are grateful: Whether
they are big or small. Research has shown that doing this every week
for ten weeks can result in lasting increases in wellbeing, as it gets
us into the habit of seeing our life through a positive lens.
Join a community choir: Singing
regularly with other people is rewarding not only because of the
pleasure derived from the music itself, but also because it is sociable
and it demands effort, commitment and attention.
Take up regular voluntary work:
Social connectedness, as well as freely giving your time, attention and
energy, and making a positive difference all contributes to our own
satisfaction with life.
Get stuck in: Active
engagement is a big aspect of personal wellbeing. If you really enjoy
your chosen activity, you will lose yourself in it and experience a
wonderful sense of 'flow'.
Think about your place in the scheme of things: Having
a sense of meaning or purpose in life, whether it is religious,
political, social, artistic or any other framework, is known to be
important for wellbeing.
Take up mindfulness meditation: Regular practice of mindfulness meditation decreases anxiety and increases calmness, working memory and flexibility of thought.
Take charge: Start
a petition, write to your MP or local councillor, or join a campaign
about an issue that concerns you. We are happier if we are proactive and
feel like we have a say in things.
Value relationships over material objects: Levels
of wellbeing have not risen in the UK since the 1970's despite an
increase in affluence. It's relationships and social networks that
contribute towards enduring happiness.
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